How does one succeed in life?
08.06.2025 03:58
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
When a narcissist mad at their new supply, do they take it out on the old supply?
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?
Ask yourself:
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
What I need from you?
Can bosses get fired for being too hard on employees?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
That's it for today.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
What is something you want to "get off your chest"?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Does not procrastinate.
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Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
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Do not set goals—set systems.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Does having the wrong address on my car insurance invalidate my policy?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Making more friends is a goal.
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Procrastinates a lot.
If there was only one man remaining on the Earth, would this be regarded as extinction?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.